There are different types of “Other Women” or “Side Chicks”. Once you determine the type of side chick you’re dealing with you get a better understanding of how she thinks. Once you know what type she is you can better plot your course of action to make her miserable, get rid of her and ultimately put your foot on both of their necks.
The Victim:
The first type that I will break down is the Side Chick that doesn’t know about you. This is the woman who doesn’t know she’s a side chick. She is a common type of woman you’ll encounter if your man cheats on you. She’s a female he ran game on, so she doesn’t know about your relationship at all. Your man probably told her he was single or recently broke up from his woman. If she’s been single for a while, then she was easily fooled and probably didn’t notice his red flags. She’s an innocent victim of his games and lies so there’s no point in being angry with her. This type is usually fairly easy to get rid of once she knows about you. She will usually dismiss herself or become the type I describe below.
The Home Wrecker:
The next is the Side Chick that knows about you. This is the worst type because she knows about your relationship. She knows all about you without you knowing her, which gives her an advantage. Since your man probably told her about you, she is in a secret competition with you. Some weak men often will use this other woman to vent to about their primary relationship. This type of Side Chick feeds off this negative information about you. She will do all the things he complains you don’t do. She will try to be everything you are not.
Sleeping with your man is an ego boost for the side chick that knows about you. He has made her believe that in some way she is better than you so she will work hard to prove this. Depending on whether she has money or not will determine how she goes about seducing him. If she has money she will try to buy her way into his heart. If not, she may try to sex her way or cook her way into his heart. Either way this woman wants what you have.
The Side Chick that knows about you may or may not want to remain a secret. She may like being his little secret so she won’t ever try to reach out to you. In fact, she might help him deceive you so she can get time alone with him. This type at least is discreet and she’s not trying to publicly embarrass you. She just wants to quietly steal your man.
On the flip side is the Side Chick that wants you to know about her so bad, but she only stays discreet out of fear of losing him. She might not want to directly blow up his spot, but she might do passive things to make herself known. Examples of this could be purposely leaving things in his house or car; Or she may heavily watch your social media hoping you will notice her and somehow make a connection.
This chick wants to be known because she wants to hurt you. Her ego wants to feed on the pain you will experience finding out she is sleeping with your man. She hopes that you will find out and be completely devastated. She wants you to blow up on your man and dump him. If you do that she will be totally satisfied and will have accomplished her goal of stealing your man.
The Homie:
The last “Other Woman” I will discuss also knows about you, but her goal isn’t to replace you. This type simply enjoys the sex your man gives her and his attention, so she just wants to be around him. She will be super chill and easygoing with him. This weak female doesn’t care if he has multiple women- she just wants to be one of them. Sis is a major threat because it’s hard to get rid of her unless he ends it with her.
As long as he wants her, she will take whatever mess he gives her. She doesn’t complain or put demands on him so he will continue to fallback on this type of Side Chick because she’s easy.
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